| Dear
Master Kwok,
I am very unlucky since my birth in 2x/4/1967 (western claender). I'm
also unlucky to meet friends like playboy. I have got depression since
1997. I am really want to committed to suicide. It's because of hopeless,
helpness. I have a big family with 8 members, but all of them don't
treat me a member of this family. People said that becuase the effect
of my birth in the year of 1967. I'm feeling very unhappy, sad, sorrow
and depressed that I don't know how to find my way to step on.
People said crystal stones can chage bad luck to good luck. Does it
really works? My name is TSE, ??-yuk, my birth is xx/03/1967 (Chinese
Calendar) my birth time according to what my mother told me is ??:30-??:00
pm.
I am really want to know what's wrong with my life, I can't struggle
with fata. Could you please giving hand to me. To instruct me how to
do, and find the right way to step on?
I hope you could giving hand to me please. Waiting for your earliest
reply.
Many thanks and best regards,
Sadness
TSE, ??-???
(Reader)
Dear Master Kwok,
I'm never feeling happy since I was born in the year of 1967. My parents
love sons more than girls. I'm the most unlucky one that nobody love
me, as even my parents know that I 'm their daughter.
I was graduated from HK S???g ??? Secondary School in 1984. After that,
I did so many job in different companies, but the longest to stay in
a company is 2 and a half of a years only.
All I met in my life the boy friends are just like the playboys. Nobody
is real love to me. All their love to me is just a lie.
Very unfortunately that, my father was died in the autumn of the year
of 1995, and then I was redundend by the previous company which is the
biggest stock brokerage company in global and the company name is called
??? Incorporated Ltd. in the start of the year 1996. After two weeks
from the date I was redundended by the company, I was suffered from
right wrist injury in an traffic accident. Then I need to wait for the
total recovery of my right wrist for about more than 2.5 years.
But very unlucky that when my right wrist was recovered in the year
of 1999, there is a economic problem in Hong Kong. I could not find
any job offer form the effects of the economic problem until now.
In between the years of 1995 to 1999, I met my old friend which is called
WONG x x in the night that my father was died. Then he's my boyfriend
started from the summer of 1996. In between this period, there are too
many things happended that made me to got the depression. It's because
all the Wong's family members are too bad to me. It's because I had
the ? with WONG x x, but he didn't want to be take any responsibilities.
The worse situation is that their family members asked me to pay for
the meals I ate at their home. WONG x x had also stay at my mother's
home to have dinner, but my family members never asked him to pay for
any money for meals. Wong's sister is the one who join the ? society.
When I asked WONG to get marry, their family members were not allowed
because they thought that they should use any money for our marriage.
All their family members were too bad that to phone me too many times
and threatened me until I've got depression.
One point I need to state that is I'm living alone from the year of
1990. I had told my mother I have had got depression since the year
of 1997, but I had not told my family members that the cause of my depression
is I was deeply hurt by Wong's family members and Wong's himself.
I have had unemployed for 7 years. I'm feeling hopeless and helpness.
It's because I have loose my working ability to find a job. What choice
I can only choose is to suicide. It's because I 'm feeling hopeless
and helpness. I'm almost 36 years old. Nobody will like to employ me
in this worst economic situation in Hong Kong. Suicide is the only choice
for me, I cannot find another choice.
Could you please kindly to giving hand to me or telling me what's wrong
with the fate of my life. How can I change the bad luck from good luck.
When and What I can find a job to work. How to improve my economic ,
because no employer offer a job for me even I have had sent over 300
application letters out. There is still no feedback. The reason I think
is because I had stopped working from the year of 1996 that I was suffered
from right wrist injury.
I'm really don't know how to step forward, and how to find the exist
in this situation. Who can help? Could you please give instruction to
me?
Many thanks & best regards,
Sadness,
TSE, ??-???
你好!
非常同情你的處境,再三詳細分析你的紫微斗數和八字命盤。
紫微斗數方面:天同化權、天梁入命,三方四正會照右弼、文昌、文曲、天機化科、太陰化祿諸吉,命格好得不得了。15-24歲大限己干令武曲化祿($)於此大限命宮,運程本吉,但文曲星卻化忌(阻��)於本命事業宮,�}起本命夫妻宮忌星,本命命宮、事業宮、財帛宮、福德宮、夫妻宮均受影響,故此,愛情和事業都不能如意。25-34歲大限庚干令太陽化祿($)於大限命宮,本應有大吉大利之運,奈何天同化忌於本命命宮,令本命命宮、事業宮、財帛宮和此大限三方四正和夫妻宮整體變差,加上地區經濟不景,令致雪上加霜。
八字方面:日元乙木生於辰月,為失令,但八字比劫眾多,卯辰、卯未半會木局,日元由弱轉�L,比多劫財($),必須以官殺制比為用,時柱雖有一點申金,但被�臍Y,無力制比,申金官星乃為夫星,是為不顯,26-35歲運行丁未,卯未再會木局,95年丁亥年,亥卯未全會木局,偏財(父星)弱土被�L木所�唌A故父亡,此運財運一直未能如意。未來三四十年運走戊申、己酉、庚戌、辛運官殺制比的喜神運,事業姻緣皆得意,正所謂熬過了黑夜見黎明。現運正走36-45歲的戊申大運,未來幾年開始逐漸步入佳運,你的中晚年運勢相當好,最辛苦的年頭已經熬過了,千萬不要氣餒,更不要有非非之想,那是要不得的消極之念。你八字食傷在干,紫微斗數盤命宮曾照文昌、文曲,你本人很有才華,非常聰明,只是過去大運行著忌運,破壞了原先甚好的命格,令你未能一展抱負,但時來運到,你開始步入了佳運,好的命格將完全發揮出來。你的命格和你的英文學識比我�L幾倍,實令我羨慕。我這�洶ㄓ~,也有一點熱心盡我所學去�韺U真正需要�韺U的人們,以上雖只區區數字,連細心分析命盤,我已花了大半天了,希望你不要讓我心血白費!
以上分析你已開始走較好較順的運程,完全是實話,並非虛言!不過,今年03年的姻緣可能依舊未盡如意,04、05甲申乙酉年逐步開始轉好,06年有利姻緣。
隨著香港經濟調整期即將結束,社會經濟將逐漸轉好,配合你的個人運勢,若你加以努力,不久的將來,你必會有一番成就。
不過,必須提出,你的斗數盤命宮主星性質以及孤辰入命,八字比劫�L旺,你的性格也應該是相當執著和孤傲,希望你以後天努力,加以改善,凡事不要往壞處想,積極樂觀做人,廣結善緣,你母親和兄弟姐妹必能接受你,希望你以誠懇的態度把你的困難告訴親人,他們必會幫你解開心中之結。
你到男友家吃飯,其家人要你交飯錢,聽起來倒真克薄,希望你也別太記卦在心,把它當是一種特殊的經歷吧!相信沒太多人能有這種奇遇。
你說你父母重男輕女,這是中國舊傳�s使然,雖然如今己有改善,但許多父母依然還有這種觀念,希望你不要記掛在心,你的英文程度那�泵n,相信你父母也已盡養育之責,你應該站在父母的立場想一想:父母要養育這�泵h的兄弟姐妹,真不簡單啊!如果父母像自已遇上一些挫折,動不動就想自殺,怎把自已和兄弟姐妹養大成人?自巳那能學懂那�洵y利的英文?你不但不要怪責父母,更應學習他們那種堅毅的精神!
你父母培育你成人,相信也希望你能對社會有所貢獻!你失業這�泵h年,其實你可以到附近的超級市場佈告板上貼貼廣告,替小學生補習,發揮自已英文如此流利之所長,既幫了別人,也幫了自已。
水晶能否改運,見仁見智。如果你真想試試,請選擇白晶,白色�磲驉C順便向你提供:你八字喜金,忌水木。
顏色方面:宜金色、白色或配合黃色、咖啡色;忌藍色、黑色和綠色。
風水方面:床頭這兩年靠西方西北方較佳,今年忌東南方和北方。正北方放置花瓶並插鮮花有利姻緣。
最後,希望你正確對待人生,千萬不要自艾自怨、自暴自棄。如若本人以上解答不能令你改觀,請你求助社會工作者,希望他們能幫你忙。
在此呼吁網友們提供寶貴意見,支持TSE小姐如何渡過難關!
郭伯碩謹啟
6-3-2003 pm 11:50
Dear Master Kwok,
Thank you very much indeed for your kindly
help and sincerely instructions.
I will try my best to live on if it's in my control.
I hope that we can have a chance or opportunity
to meet together in one day.
It's because I want to appreciate to you and your helpful instruction
to
lead me how to step on the way of my life.
Once again, thank you very much indeed.
With all the best wishes, joy and peace
be with you!
Sadness,
TSE, ??-??? )
Dear Master Kwok,
Thank you very much indeed for your precious words and kindness help.
I'm feeling very tired to step forward to the way of my life ahead.
I'm lost, I cannot find an exist in any way, but I really want to be
relaxed. I'm feeling very unappy to live on in this human's world. It
gives me soo many hurts and wounds that are unforgettable and the wound
is still not recover yet.
What I'm begging is 'death's coming. It's very hard, difficult and painful
for me to stay any more moment in this human's world. I cannot found
happiness and meaningful in my life. What I am used to beg for is love
and care from my family members, but they never give, and I never get.
The final destination in lives is 'death'. I don't think that it's horrible
and terrible to face death. I don't want and to demand the length (ages)
of my life, what I'm really want and demand is the 'quality'.
I've lost since from my father's death, so I have no need to wait for
the death's coming. I think that I'm satisfied even my life is up to
the age of 35. "Death" is not horrible as people think. Sadnness
and hopeless are the most horrible and terrible to me that I am unable
to cope with.
Sorry for bothering you. I don't mean that to bother you any more. I
just want to leave some words to express my appreciation for your kindness
and precious words you had given me.
Once agian, thank you very much indeed for your kindness and precious
words.
Sadness & hopeless
L xxx
您好!
本人因到內地去,未能及時答覆您,希望您鼓起勇氣做人,每個人活在世間,都有自巳存在的價值,千萬不要毀滅自巳,珍惜生命!本人稍候會再較詳細分析,恐您一時想不開,特此先予
勸告!請您同時求助社工,也請您留下電話號碼,讓本人可以直接和您聯絡!
珍重生命!
郭伯碩謹啟
17-3-2003 am7:25
( 就此嚴重問題,本人已馬上報警求助 )
Dear Master Kwok,
Many thanks for yor kindness and sincere
that I have never get from my
family. What your love, care and ds to me are very touching that makes
me
feeling very warm and having a pleasure crying that difficult to stop.
Although there are nine members in my family, I have never feeling love
and
care given from them like this. Many thanks for your sincere, kindness
and
friendly help to me, an unknown reader of you.
I'm really lost now, I cannot find a
right way to step forward ahead of my
life. I'm very feared to face with everything in my life. What I'm facing
is too much pressure and feeling very
hard and difficult to face and to cope
with everything, and to go ahead to the way of my life.
I don't expect how long my life should
be upto which age, what I'm really
expect is the 'quality' of my life. I don't fear 'death'coming, but
I'm
really living with sadness, sorrow, frustrated and depressed that really
makes me hopeless and helpless. It's because of I don't have a family
support and it gives other people the chances to hurt me and leaving
the
unforgettable hurt memories in my mind.
Recently, it's because of my leasing
contract in the flat I'm living is
finished, I'm in too much trouble to deal with the concerns of moving
flat.
It makes me feeling very difficult and very hard to choose a correct
or
right choice. I know that (水,木) is the worst to me and I need to avoid
them. I have looked for flats for a longer period. I'm having look for
a
flat which is located in Causeway Bay. The name of this building is
called
xx大廈 (銅鑼灣xx道x號x字樓x座),but the owner of the unit of this flat
is (姓林的). That makes me very fear. I'm very afraid of making the wrong
and incorrect choice to move into this flat. It's because of the owner
of
the unit of this flat is (林先生).
There are 2 woods (木, 木) inside in his
surname. What's happened to me is this trouble that makes me very
frightened and suspect whether I should move into the unit of this flat,
or
just find another one that to avoid (水,木), so it brings me too much
trouble that I cannot and don't know how to help myself as because I'm
looking for flats for a very long period that I still cannot find a
suitable
one.
I'm really want you to tell
me whether I should choose this unit of flat, or
find and wait for another more suitable one or not. Please forgive my
stupid, foolish and lacking of wisdom. I'm in too much trouble with
this
moving concerns.
I hope you could help me and give me an opinion or any suggestion or
instruction that I would follow.
It may be it's not a big deal
in your point of view, but for me it's a very
bid deal to me that because of I'm really fear for this 2 woods (木木).
What I was getting hurt is from the previous
boy friend called (xxx), all
of x's family and himself had hurt me too much that it's unforgettabl.
So, that's why I'm feared too much by this case.
I hope you could kindly give me instruction.
I'm feeling very fatigue to step forward
ahead in my life. I'm really don't
know how I can know and to choose the right direction, the right step
and
the right choice.
I have a medical social worker, but she's
not so helpful to solve any
problem of me except the medical affairs. She is just a medical social
worker as she think.
Dear Master Kwok, I'm reall very appreciate
to what your love, care, sincere
and friendly help to me. I am just thinking that whether I should staying
alive in this world or not. In this universe, I found that the
most
horrible and terrible is human's world. People are destroying nature
and
people themselves, wars, battles, fightings, arguement, all of these
destroy
the love and peace in this universe.
If I can choose, I don't want to be a
human being again. All my life
experiences to me is very horrible and terrible that I am unable to
forget
and to solve.
Sadness & hopeless,
TSE, ??-???
Dear Master Kwok,
Thank your very much indeed for your greeting card.
I'm missing to leave you my phone numbers which are 2xxxxxxx or 9xxxxxxx
and 7xxxxxxx
I'm just believe you only, as because I don't have any other people
would soo good to me as you.
Many thanks again, and with all the best wishes to you,
Many thanks!
Sandness & Hopless,
TSE, ??
謝小姐:您好!
早上打開您昨日(16日)寄來的郵件,您一直沒有改變輕生念頭,使我非常擔心,今天一整日,
本人一直在尋求幫您的方法,尋求多方�邟U,讓您度過難關!
本人會再詳細為您分析,但懇望也要積極主動做些事情,首先請您同時求助以下機構,向他們坦白道出您目前的困境,以予幫助:
社署電話:23432255
撒瑪利亞會電話:23892221
生命熱線電話:23820000
本人稍後將再細心為您分析您的狀況。
請
熱愛自巳寶貴的生命!
郭伯碩敬啟
17-3-2003 pm5:00
謝小姐最新發展狀�G:
| 鑒於謝小姐屢次在電郵中,字里行間均顯露對人生非常絕望,本人於17日星期一早上打開郵箱,嚇然發現謝小姐的電郵充滿了絕望的訊息,本人立刻發出簡短的電郵給謝小姐:1.鼓勵謝小姐提起做人的勇氣;2.渴望知道謝小姐當時的狀況。由於相隔二三十個小時,本人恐怕謝小姐出事,馬上致電
999,999台又�釦i了一個警察局的報案電話,本人又馬上致電警察局,接電話的警員郭先生查問當事人的地址和電話,本人告訴警員,謝小姐平日只以電郵通訊,並沒有留下電話號碼,更不會有地址。警員的回答是:沒有當事人的地址和電話,沒辦法處理,就算提供了郵址,可能有些人申請電子郵箱時登記的是假地址,警察要查的話也要透過一些網絡公司,時間可能要花三四天之久,於事無補。
報警沒受理後,依然沒有得到 謝小姐的回音,本人進入雅虎網站,用賀卡形式再次鼓勵謝小姐,並要求謝小姐提供電話號碼以便聯絡並告訴謝小姐,本人正尋求各方面的�邟U,希望謝小姐繼續堅持下去。
終於得到謝小姐連續兩封電郵的答覆,頓使本人放心和輕松了一些。
本人繼而致電求助一位未曾謀面但已交談過的社土李姑娘,剛巧李姑娘抱恙沒上班,由何姑娘接聽,傾詼約半小時,何姑娘提供了一間有關處理有自殺傾向案件的機構,本人又和該機構的李先生詳細傾談了謝小姐的個案,李先生建議本人把資料交給警方。本人又致電社會福利處,該署職員表示不會主動接融對方,要報案後由警方轉交才予處理。
本人一邊準備資料,一邊致電謝小姐,由傳呼台留下本人聯絡電話,片刻後,謝小姐以沮喪的狀態回電本人,經過大約兩個小時的傾談,出乎意料之外,謝小姐完全改變的悲觀情緒和取消了輕生的念頭,並同意本人的提議並依本人所提供的,主動找社署、撒瑪利亞會以及生命熱線,尋求�邟U,本人相信社署以及有關方面會給謝小姐提供�邟U,包括心理輔導
...... 本人向謝小姐保証,若得不到有關方面的理會,本人會介紹認識的社工�邟U跟進。謝小姐再三保証,經過本人的勸解,一定會鼓起勇氣做人,絕不會自殺,也答應今日18日主動向有關方面求助,而且言談的語氣顯露了信心和輕松。在謝小姐的情緒巳經穩定下來的情�G下,本人決定暫時取消再次報警,並繼續跟進。
郭伯碩敬啟
18-3-2003
以下是謝小姐經過本人以電話傾談之後再給本人的連續幾封電郵以及熱心人鼓勵謝小姐的電郵:
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Dear
Master Kwok,
Many thanks for your love, care, sincere and frinedly help. You
are the one
who can give me the hope and on behind to give me support. You and
your
precious words are more important and can be encouraged me than
my family
members that I'm feelin is. I
will try my best to face all the difficulties and obstacles in
my life. I
don't know how to appreciate you, but I'm promissed that I will
try to solve
all the problems in my life and bravely to jump over all the difficulties
and obstacles that I need to do.
I hope that I could strong enough
to face and solve all the problems. I
also hope I could give you back something good to you whenever
I could, as
because you are the one who gives me hope and warm. You were just
like a
candle to lead me to an exist on my way. I'm willing to follow
what your
precious words and instructions given me.
I don't want to be so weak and
fear to face everything. I will try my best
to change what my negative fthought that as you told me.
Many thanks for your precious words
and instructions and the friendly help
that makes me feeling very warm and touching.
Once again, thank you very much
indeed for all you had given to me.!
Many thanks & best regards,
TSE,
Dear Master Kwok,
Many thanks for your kindness,care, sincere, and friendly help!
May all the joy & peace be with you.
With Best Wishes!
TSE,
Dear Master Kwok,
Thank you very much indeed for your love, care, kindness, sincere,
and friendly help, and all your precious words and behaviour that
makes me really feeling warm, touching and hopeful.
I'm just a stranger to you, but what your help and instructions
to me is deeply impressd on my mind and my heart that like a fire
to light up my life.
Many thanks!
With all the best wishes to you!
Many thanks & best regards,
TSE,
Hi Dear Master Kwok,
Dear Master,
Wishing you everyday would be happy
and beautfiul as the shining rainbow in the
sky.
L......
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elise law 叫本人轉交謝小姐的電郵如下:
Dear Master Kwok,
Can you pass this e-mail to Ms. Tse? Thank you!
Hi, Ms. Tse, I feel sorry to what you had and
have experienced. However, I hope you will NEVER EVER GIVE UP YOURSELF!
We all know that life is tough. I can understand that what you had been
going through were deep pain for you.I know that it is hard for you
to forget all those pain, but please don't let those pain to remain
in your every single daily life. We need to look ahead at what we want
to do instead of keep looking back what had happened in the past. Please
don't give up yourself, life is never easy because life is giving us
lessons of how to improve ourselves. You might say that the lessons
you had were too cruel or too hard on you but there are also many people
out there are having hard lives. Let me tell you one real story that
happened in my country (Malaysia). Five/Six years ago, one family were
so happy on their way to the airport because the eldest daughter of
that family was going to further her study in UK. After waiting for
the plane that she took was taken off, they left the airport. It was
night, on their way back, their car was hit and all her (the eldest
daughter) family members (her parents and 3 younger sisters) were died
in that accident. When she arrived at UK's airport, policemen went to
her and ask her to go back to Malaysia right away. When she went back
to Malaysia, she just couldn't believe that she was the only person
left in her family. She cried and cried. Actually, I read this news
from newspaper. Everyone was so shocked that how could this kind of
horrible thing can happen in our lives. One of the things that I can
never forget when I read the news was that girl told journalists that
she will never give up her life even though she has lost her entire
family. She truly believes that she needs to move on and live to the
fullest of her live because she knows that her family will not want
to see her to live in the sadness. Ms. Tse, I really really wish you
can be like her. BE TOUGH! Believe me or not, sunshine will come soon
right after dark. As we go through our lives, we learn how to live/improve
our lives. Ms. Tse, BE CONFIDENT TO YOURSELF. When I read what you had
written to Master Kwok, I can tell that your English is very good. I
admire you that you can express yourself so well in English. I know
that it is really frustated that sending all those resume out but didn't
get reply. However, you're not the only person who experience this.
One of my friends told me that she had sent her resume to 500 companies.
Finally, she got one interview from one of the companies and she got
hired. So, Ms. Tse, just DON'T NEVER EVER GIVE UP to give yourself a
try. Who knows you'll be called for an interview soon? Okay...I think
I better stop at here because I have a test tomorrow. If you don't mind,
we can be a friend. I would be glad if you can write me an e-mail. I
hope to hear from you soon.
p/s: Master Kwok, can you give my e-mail address
to her personally instead of posting my e-mail address on your website.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
elise law
Miss Law,
太謝謝您對謝小姐個案的回應,您是本人作出呼吁後作出積極回應的第一位,謝謝您的熱心,本人將把您這時 e-mail
再轉達予謝小姐,本人也決不會在網上公佈您的郵址,請放心!
祝您
萬事如意!
郭伯碩敬啟
18-3-2002
| 謝小姐:您好!
昨日我們交談之後,非常高興您能及時轉變對人生悲觀的看法,同時,連續收到您送來了令人振奮的訊息:您將以積極的態度去應對面對著的一切困難、障礙和難題。
懇切希望您一直記住本人昨日電話中長談的勸告和實例,恕不重复,否則,本人再花幾天也無法完全道盡其詳。
請償試改變自已對別人的看法,不要試圖改變別人的做法和別人對自巳的看法,也不要太介意別人對自巳的看法,並請凡事不要太多疑心,您父親在認識男友那天去世實乃碰巧,不要埋怨男友,反之,您男友也一樣可以埋怨倒霉,您們能相處那�泵h年,也是一種緣份,千萬珍惜!
房東姓氏的五行所屬對您命運的影�鄑颽O微之又微,切勿太執著細節,長此患得患失,必定影�鄖迨葥楛d!
至於尋找工作方面,在還沒找到工作之前,您可找中小學生補習,最多收費少一些,利已利人,您的學識那�泵n,英交程度那�為炕A在英文水平日益趨降的如今,您可真應該出一分力,發一分光,對社會作出貢�Y最是值得!
而繼續攻讀學位方面,也該同時衡量自已的精神承受能力。
再次希望您主動找社工求助,他們一定會在各方面作出輔導和�邟U,尤其是心理方面的治療!
以下是一位熱心朋友的電郵,本人在此轉寄給您,並附上其郵址(?????????),由您自已決定是否與彼聯絡。
最後,祝您身心愉快!萬事如意!
郭伯碩敬啟
18-3-2003 pm9:40
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Dear Master Kwok,
Could you please kindly to let me know what is the new name I need to
change, and is it a sutible time for me to moving flat in this year
of 2003?
I need to stay in the flat I'm living now
or should move to another one?
Thank you for your attention and kindness,
sincere and helpful instruction.
Many thanks & best regards,
TSE,
謝小姐:您好!
再經第二次的電話交談,您的確開朗了許多,但總覺得您還有許多小節放不開,希望不要太拘泥於如此細微的小節,才能真正放開心懷,也希望您主動接觸社工,提出困難,他們一定會熱心幫助您。本人按您的要求,免費為您改了幾個名字供您逞擇,是否要改,請您自行決定。(名字將由電郵寄出)
祝您快樂!
郭伯碩敬啟
25-3-2003
Dear Master Kwok,
Many thanks for your kindness, sincere, and friendly help. I'm appreciatevery
much for your so kindness to me.
I'm a buddhist, I have eaten vegetrian for almost 9 years. I am also
avoluteener for 'fire services department' and 'royal police forcedepartment'.
I did think that the reason is because of I'm the volunteers for the
abovedepartments, and so that I'm so fortunately to have your help.
I do believe the'reason and result'. I mean that what you do and that
cause what theresult is.
I'm the volunteers for both of 'fire services department' and 'royal
policeforce department', and so I could have your kindness, sincere
and friendly help for free of charge that it's because of the 'reason
and the result'that caused this.
A Master who believe Buddha had asked me to follow her to be her fellow,
but another Master aked me to reject her. It's because the master who
had asked me to follow her are always disturbed by ghosts. As because
of this reason,
Master H????? had asked me not to follow her. Master H?????? said that
Iwould be unhappied and feeling very hard and difficult if I follow
someonewho can see and meet the ghosts. As because of this reason, I
had decided
to rejected her.
Also, I'm too worry about that the friend that I told you who's called
W???,W???-??? are also and always can see and meet the gohsts very often.
This makes me too much trouble that whether I should leave him or not.
As because of Master H???? told me that I would be unhappied and feeling
very hard and difficult to near somebody whom can see and meet the ghosts.
Do you have any knowledge of these things that and whether you could
give me any suggestion or opinion? I do believe you as you are so kindness
to me and also aprreciat you have had give me the instructions that
make me feeling very touching and appreciated. Once again, many many
thinks to you!Thank you very much for giving me the choices of the new
names that of your kindness and help. I would like to choose to change
it to TSE, Ch??-???.
What I'm busy at now is moving house, I have already decided to rent
the flat that I had told you before. I do hope that I could be happy,
healthy and good luck that it could brings me.
I would like to keep in contact with as that I'm happy and so appreciate
to you.Talk to you next. Many thanks!
with all the best wishes and love to you,
TSE,
您好!
既然在原處住得不開心,換個地方也是好的。但最重要的是千萬不要拘泥小節,疑這疑那,容易導致神經衰弱。
您是一位熱心服務社會的人,實令人佩服,但希望您在關心社會的同時,也同樣應該關心和照顧自已。有著健全的身心,才能更好服務社會,同時不會給社會帶來負擔。
信仰方面,應該跟那一位,最好由您自已判斷,當然是選擇令您信任、令您開懷的 Master 最好。
男友方面,問題比較复雜,只有您自己最了解對方,合不合緣,您最清楚,這是一生中最重大的問題,必須自己去判斷,去決定,去承受。
最後,祝您永遠開心快樂!
郭伯碩謹啟
26-3-2002
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